Jessica, only thing i dont like is you kept saying friends with benefits never works out! YES IT DOES, and it always has for me. lol Never have had drama with someone that was just a friend ! u need to be straight up and explain what u want and if feelings change for either person then you move on and accept the fact that it was fun while it lasted! You have to go into this with someone that wants the same thing and try to keep it as a monagamous relaltionship or at least with protection being used!
I agree with you. I wonder why your article was on-line only, while the male perspective was in print where more people will read it... I especially like that you included info reminding people again about STD's, something most people would like to forget about or ignore. While all humans want and think about sex, we can't live in a fantasy world and just do what we want when we want. Sex has consequences, emotional and otherwise. And everyone says, "Use protection", (which people should), but remember--it is not 100% effective! Thanks for the article!
Jess! This is great! ...I do have to agree with ya on this one...although, it does happen sometimes that you sleep with your friend thinking that your into the friends with benefits....then you don't like the idea because the sex was wack! Not because you want more in the relationship.... not speaking from experience of course :)
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posted 4/19/06 @ 2:47 PM PST
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